Why you should not regret sharing your pearls

Many times, we are full of regret that we loved somone so much, that we sacrificed so much, that we gave so much – but ended up with the short end of the stick. The temptation to romance regret is strong. But you should not regret playing your game. It is your game. You gave so much because that is who you are. You sacrificed lots because that is your game. It is who you…

"Why you should not regret sharing your pearls"

If he treats you like a queen…

You must have heard those lines before. If he treats you like a queen, treat him like a king. If she treats you like a king, treat her like a queen. It sounds good. But in reality, it is horrible advice. Very horrible. Who Makes The First Move? It is horrible because it tells you to approach with caution, to hold back that special treatment and wait till the other person takes the first step.…

"If he treats you like a queen…"

Even with God, love is not enough

When we say that there is no such thing as an unconditional relationship, or we say that love is not enough, which really is a matter of semantics, people often retort with one statement or the other that implies that love is all we need and cite the example of God as one we enjoy an unconditional relationship with or one who’s love is sufficient. So, let’s examine whether love is enough for God. Being…

"Even with God, love is not enough"

What was she doing with her life while he got rich?

During a conversation yesterday, a lady friend mentioned how a popular comedian is rumoured to have broken up with his wife. My friend went on to ask me, “Why is it now that he has made it that he is ditching her? After she has suffered with him and supported him?” She was quite upset about it. Let us put aside the validity of the rumour and just assume that it is true. For the…

"What was she doing with her life while he got rich?"

When she asks you, “Have you eaten?”

If you are African, male and above 18 years of age – and have interacted with the female species long enough, chances are that you have been asked that immortal question, “Have you eaten?”, by at least one lady.  See; some of you guys joke too much. You complain about the fairer gender asking you that question. What exactly is the problem with it? Someone cares enough about you to ask.  Whatever form of love it…

"When she asks you, “Have you eaten?”"

This ebook provides top tips on how to get more excitement into your life!

Did you know that to get the relationship you want, how the other person will make you feel is more important than how the person looks? Or that being a single woman in your thirties and resident in the urban cauldron that is Lagos doesn’t have to come with #desperate? Well, whether you think you know or not, get ready to learn a few things, people, because award-winning author and lifestyle blogger, Lape Soetan is…

"This ebook provides top tips on how to get more excitement into your life!"